You never call. You send a handwritten hanko -stamped letter via a third-party concierge. You ask for nothing. You simply state a time you will be at a specific izakaya .
At the izakaya , a "scrum" of three hosts surrounds you. They order the most expensive otokomae (showy) dishes without your consent. You pay immediately in cash. No receipt. japanese bdsm ddsc013 scrum pain gate best exclusive
Never arrive alone. Always be with a Japanese peer who is one level below the target venue. If you want the owner’s ear, bring the owner’s driver. The driver will vouch for your DD (Discretion & Discipline). You never call